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TODAY'S EPISODE of The Rational Basis (r) of Happiness
1-Abuse 2-Sadness
1-Signs of an abusive relationship 2-Why don't I like myself or others?
1-Anger 2-Envy 3-Friendship vs Romance
1-My fiance can't handle being pregnant since I lost my job. 2-Stay away from envious people 3-Women like me, but only as a friend.
1-Anger and Abuse 2-Career Change
1-How can I deal with my abusive husband? 2-I am afraid to change careers.
1-Anxiety 2-Shyness
1-What is the cause of my depression and anxiety? 2-After 20 years my husband avoids affectionate contact
1-Being Good 2-Rejected Child
1-Is it what we resist doing, or what we actually do? 2- (starts 1m30s) Might my young child feel rejected because he was adopted?
1-Bigotry 2-Happiness
1-Living or working with bigots (atarts at 7m02s) 2-Getting over my poor choices of the past.
1-Dating Anxiety 2-Child Abuse Signs (starts at 4m 57s) 3-Peer Pressure (starts at 6m 55s)
1-My girlfriend doesn't call 2-My son is afraid of me 1-Psychological Independence
1-Dating Flip Flop 2-Selfishness is not...
1-My flip flopping boyfriend suddenly wants to end our relationship. 1-Selfishness is not being a bully
1-Depressed about Career 2-Stressful effects of Divorce
1- Family is dysfunctional due to depressed dad. 2-Why am I stressed? (Dad told mom he didn't love her anymore.)
1-Depression Tips 2-Communication
1-Tips to reduce depression 2-Why does my husband not focus on that I say?
1-Emotions 2-Independence
1-Changing long held ideas 2-Holding your own with peers
1-Envy 2-Grief and Depression
1-Granting the undeserved 2-Boyfriend is depressed over loss of pet
1-Expressing Affection Part 2 of 2 2-procrastination
1-I am afraid to tell my girlfriend how I like her. 2-Stopping procrastination
1-Family Baggage 2-Gayness and Ethics
1-My girlfriend's kid controls her. 2- (starts at 6m 9s) Is it immoral to be gay?
1-Getting Old 2-Unemotional Partner (keep this order for podcast)
1-Does old age have to mean no romance? 2-My boyfriend lacks emotion.
1-Gossip 2-Abuse 3-Sincerity
1-Unsupported accusations of infidelity 2-I hit my wonderful but irrational girlfriend 3- Phony vs. genuine pleasantries
1-Groveling 2-Procrastination
1-I feel I have to please others 2-How can I stop procrastinating
1-Honesty 2-My Life's Purpose
1-Recovering from loss of trust in a lover, friend, or coworker 2-(starts at 4m26s) I have no financial needs, yet I have become a bitchy mom.
1-Honesty 2-Obsessions
1- Honesty - I discovered that my uncle is my father. 2-Obsessions - Which are good, which are bad.
1-Husband's Hidden Life 2-Career Failure
1-My husband's excessive spending is a mystery 2-My husband won't abandon his money-losing career.
1-I love you 2-Honesty 3-Psychological Independence
1-Why say this? 2-Six year old's fibs (starts at 4m47s) 3-Fear of Others (starts at 7m30s)
1-Independence 2-Dating
1-Physical vs. Intellectual Independence 2-How can I ask our a girl whom already has a boyfriend?
1-Independence 2-Emotions
1-Living with a demanding parent or partner 2-My friend can't express his emotions
1-Infertility 2-''I can't help myself''
1-My boyfriend wants kids that I can't have. 2-Invented mental diseases
1-Insults 2-Child Visitation 3-Causeless Anger
1-Dealing with criticism 2-(starts at 2m20s) My wife denies me visitation rights. 3-(starts at 4m54s) I hate people and want all of us to die.
1-Love is what? 2-Stress 3-Unearned Guilt
1-Is love sacrifice or selfish? 2-13 year old cries nightly 3-Dad insists I be a doctor
1-Mental Evasion 2-Happiness
1-Afraid to think about important issues 2-How to recapture my earlier happiness after experiencing multiple tragic events.
1-Moral Lies 2-New Career
1-Examples of moral lies 2-Starting a new career after being fired
1-Motivation 2 Anger
1-How do I get off the couch and back to work in a new career? 2-Using anger as motivation (starts at xmys)
1-Obesity 2-Abuse in Romance 3-Pain
1-What's the use (starts at 0m0s) 2-Kid hates stepdad (starts at 2m01s) 3-Thinking away pain (starts at 6m57s)
1-Open Marriage 2-Tactfulness (Use same order for podcast)
1-My husband wants me to be intimate with other men. 2-I say things at the wrong time and place.
1-Over Parenting 2-Sensuality
1-My parent's rules are unbearable 2-I'm 50 years old and self-pleasure against my religion
1-Phobias 2-Getting a Life
1-My son has a severe germ phobia 2-I can't find my life purpose.
1-Rational Happiness 2-Self Esteem
1-Why does happiness require rationality? 2-Do sophisticated criminals have high self esteem and happiness?
1-Romance 2-Moods 3-Emotions
1-How to evaluate a romantic partner 2-Why am I always in a strange mood? (starts 3m3s) 3-What are emotions? (starts 3m37s)
1-Roving Eyes 2-Stale Romance
1-I have feelings for a man who is not my fiance 2-My husband is no longer romantic
1-Sexual Identity 2-Phobias
1-I think I am a lesbian 2-My child is afraid of rain (2 of 2)
1-Sexuality 2-Forced Emotions
1-Why do I find my neighbor's loud sex to be disgusting? 2-Can I force myself to have positive emotions?
1-Shyness 2-Honesty
1-Is shyness treatable? 2- (5m30s) I discovered that my husband watches gay porn.
1-Stalker 2-Laughter
1-When a friend starts to stalk you 2-I laugh at all the wrong times
1-Teen Sex 2-Fear of Life 3-Giving Up
1-Sex is becoming a diluted value for youth 2--I am afraid of life since seeing a documentary on 911 3-Giving in to failure
1-Teenagers 2-Boyfriends
1-How to stay close with your teenagers 2-Why do I always need to change boyfriends?
1-Think First 2-Happiness (podcast order is 1, then 2)
1-How to prevent saying the wrong thing at the wrong time. 2-What is happiness?
1-Trust 2-Procrastination
1-I haven't trusted people since I was romantically deceived. 2-Why am I not following through on my goals?
1-Unearned Guilt 2-Discipline (keep this order for podcast)
1-Forced Volunteerism 2-How can I discipline my disrespectful step daughter?
1-Unhappiness 2-Freeloading Son
1-Why am I Unhappy 2-My 35 year old won't move out of the house.
1-Wife vs. Friends 2- Engagement Fail
1-My husband prefers the company of friends 2-After 11 years my fiance wants to end it.
Abandoned by Mom
How will my son's schooling be effected by being abandoned by his mother?
Abandoned Family
Will my wife's abandoning my son and me effect his school performance?
Abandoned Family (1 of 2)
Is it okay for my young son to meet a father he has never known?
Abandoned Mom
My kids shun me due to the influence of my con-man ex husband.
Abandoned Son
Should I try to reunite with a young son whom I abandoned?
Abuse - Signs of
I'm trapped in a romantic, but abusive relationship.
Abuse and Body Weight
Is my weight loss due to abuse?
Abuse and Panic
I have had panic attacks since I was sexually abused at 8 years old
Abuse by Boyfriend
My boyfriend hits, chokes, and insults me.
Abuse by Father
Should I turn my son in to child protective services?
Abused Daughter
My adult abused daughter refuses to have anything to do with me.
Abused Psychologically
I was publicly psychologically abused by a radio shock jock when I was a minor.
Abusing the Abuser
My granddaughter severly abuses her abusive parents.
Abusive and Angry
How can I deal with my my husband who has anger and abuse issues?
Abusive Boyfriend
My future brother in law is a tyrant.
Why do I love my abusive boyfriend?
Abusive ex.
My ex husband psychologically abuses me.
Abusive Husband
Is my husband abusive enough to leave him?
Abusive Relationships
(starts at 3m48s) Signs of Abuse in a Romantic Relationship
Activism
How to take the first steps to become active for your favorite cause. A short interview with activist Lin Zinser
How to engage in effective intellectual activism - a short interview with activist Lin Zinser
Activist, Becoming an
How to take the first steps in becoming an activist - a short interview with activist Lin Zinser.
Addicted to Sweets?
Is my addiction to sweets chemically based?
Addiction, compulsion, habit
Why do I feel compelled to tell others about my porn addiction in graphic detail?
Addictions vs. Habits
I am addicted to alcohol, food, and sex.
ADHD
Does my son have ADHD?
How accurate is an internet test I took that says I have AHHD?
ADHD - Is it Legitimate?
My young son has been diagnosed with major anger issues.
ADHD and Choice Making
How an I get my boyfriend to take his ADHD medications?
ADHD?
What should I do now that my kid was diagnosed with ADHD?
Adoption
How do we tell our 14 year old son he was adopted?
Adult Virginity
Should I tell my girlfriend that I am a 36 year old virgin?
Affair With Friend
How do I deal with my husband's emotional internet affair?
Afraid of Sales Job
How do I overcome my fear of selling?
Afraid to Drive
I am afraid to drive at age 80.
After Combat, What Next?
What a soldier experiences after returning home from war - a short interview with Adjustment Counselor Jay White.
Age Difference in Romance
I can't think clearly about my new romance due to the stress from my divorce.
Age Gap Romance
My sister is in love with a questionable man 20 years older.
Aggressive Grandson
How can I better handle my aggressive grandson?
Alcoholic Daughter
How can I help my adult alcoholic daughter.
Alcoholic Husband
My husband is wonderful but drinks 2 large bottles of vodka a day and hides it.
Alcoholism
Warning signs of alcoholism - a short interview with author Anne Fletcher
Is my attempt to go sober the reason my life-long depression is ending?
Alcoholism Myths
Alcoholics Anonymous myths about alcoholism.
Alien Abductions
How people come to believe in aliens
Alzheimer's
A second opinion showed my husband's Alzheimer's diagnosis was wrong.
Am I Nasty?
I get nasty with people without realizing it.
Am I Unlikable?
I was accused of being rude and was fired.
Ambition
(Begins 6m 46s) I want to make up for my unambitious early years.
Anger
I'm twelve and get very angry over small things.
Why do I hate my family?
(starts at 6m 40s) My new anger is getting out of hand.
Why does my ex continue to hate and torment me?
Should I abandon a good friend whom recently developed sever anger problems?
I need help dealing with my anger.
I can't get past my anger over my cheating husband.
Why do certain common sounds make me angry?
Anger - Causeless
I hate people and want everyone to die.
Anger at Girlfriend
Help me stop hurting my girlfriend when I get angry
Anger at Infidelity
I can't get past my anger at my husband for being unfaithful.
Anger at Kids
How can I control my unjustified anger against my kids?
Anger at Lies
I am so angry about my wife's pre-marriage lies concerning her health
Anger at Mom
Why do I feel so angry at my invalid mom?
Anger Control
How can I control my being angry at my girlfriend?
I was convicted of mild domestic violence due to financial stress.
Anger Management
How can I control my anger?
My adult son is seething with anger.
I am afraid that my uncontrolled anger is going to cause a heart attack.
Anger out of Proportion
I get very angry over small things.
Anger Pretending
I am an actor and need to understand how to act angry.
Anger w Newlyweds
My wife gets very angry at little things I both do and don't do.
Anger With Family
I have a problem controlling my anger.
Anger-Dealing With
How to deal with stress from when my handicapped wife unjustly attacks me.
Angry Adult Children
My adult kids have anger issues. Where did I go wrong?
Angry Child
My three year old has anger problems.
Why does my grandson have an anger problem only at school?
My three year old has rage and anger problems
My angry child hits classmates and adults.
Angry Neighbor
We lost our friendship with our neighbor due to a miscommunication.
Angry Parent
How can I help my 'quick to get angry' husband?
Angry Silent Teenager
My angry teenage daughter doesn't talk or smile with adults.
Angry Son
My young son asked me to see a counselor about his anger.
Angry Step Child
Anger issues with our pre-school step-child
Angry Young Son
My angry son tears sheetrock off the walls.
Anorexic Friend
How do I help a friend whom recently became anorexic?
Anti-Social
My husband is increasingly anti-social.
I no longer enjoy being with people. (begins 4minutes 33seconds in)
Anticipating Death
I am terrified about my husband's illness.
Anxiety
How can I get over being severely anxious?
I want to get off my anxiety meds but I am afraid to.
I can't stop thinking about all the uncertainties in my life.
Are my physical problems due to anxiety?
(begins 4m41s) I'm so anxious in public that my legs shake. (begins 4m41s)
Anxiety about Unpleasantness
How to cope with unpleasant issues
Anxiety and Guilt
My parents don't know that I quit college.
Anxiety and Nausea
I experience actual nausea whenever I hear a certain song.
Anxiety in Public
My anxiety drives me nuts, but I don't want to take medication.
Anxiety Performance Anxiety
I am a singer with a dull stage presence.
Anxiety when Arguing
Why do I overreact when mom and I argue?
Anxiety with People
Is my constant avoiding of people social anxiety?
Anxious About Dating
Overcoming the social anxiety of dating - a short interview with Dr. Steve Orma.
Anxious About Everything
I am a "chain worrier", moving from one worry to another, and can't stop.
Anxious and Insecure
(Starts at 5m 48s) My parents' strictness makes me anxious and uncontrollably nervous. (Starts at 5m 48s)
Anxious Insomnia
My anxiety keeps me awake all night.
Apologies
How much apology is too much?
My husband won't apologize when he unintentionally hurts my feelings.
Appeasement
Appeasement backfires, in marriage, friendships, or politics
Appeasement; Individual and Political
Appeasement does not work, both in personal and political situations.
Appreciation
No one appreciates when I am helpful.
Arguments
My mom and grandma draw me into their arguments.
Arranged Marriage
I am attracted to a woman of higher status than myself.
Art
(starts at 8m 6s) What I (Dr. Kenner) gain from art. (starts at 8m 6s)
Art vs. Decoration
Having the courage to call bad art what it is. (begins at 8m 31s)
Asexuality
I have always had zero interest in sex and find it repulsive.
Attention Deficit Disorder and Work
My Attention Deficit Disorder is effecting my job performance.
Bad Boss
My boss likes to be boot licked and worshiped.
My boss hints that he wants to be bootlicked and worshipped.
Bad Child?
Sometimes a child’s bad behavior is a cry for help. (begins 6 minutes 00 seconds in)
Bad Choices
Your mental health can't escape your lies.
Bad News
How can I tell my young daughter that her dad died?
Balanced Life
Finding a balance between work, romance, ad all parts of your life - a short interview with seminar presenter Jean Moroney.
Behavior at School
My son is great at home but acts up in pre-school
Benevolence
When helping others is good . . . or bad.
Betrayed?
Why did my friend turn on me after I helped her repair her marriage?
Bi-Polar Behavior
How can I help my A.D.D. Bipolar college son?
Big Brother
I'm an only child and crave to have an older brother.
Bipolar Child
Is there a cure for my seven year old's bipolar?
Bipolar Disorder (1 of 2)
Am I bipolar or am I having a reaction to my medications?
Bipolar Disorder (2 of 2)
Bisexuality
I am devastated because my son just told me he is bisexual.
Bizarre Behavoir
My granddaughter bites the hands off all her dolls.
Blame Shifting
Why does my wife blame me for things she does?
Blended Family
I can't accept having a blended family with my ex.
Blind Dates
How to get the most out of a blind date - a short interview with Dr. Don Kieffer.
How to get the most from a blind date ~ a short interview with Dr. Don Kieffer
(Starts at 6m 58s) Why you might consider blind dates. (Starts at 6m 58s)
Body Image
Are you ashamed of your body shape? (begins 7minutes 53seconds in)
Borderline Personality Disorder
I'm depressed and try to hurt myself.
I treat people that I like badly.
I am grieving the loss of my . . . therapist.
Bossy Wife
How can I deal with a wife who is an authoritarian parent?
Boyfriend vs. Daughter
Is it harmful to my daughter to have my boyfriend sleep over?
Boys Kissing
My grandson kisses other boys.
Brain Overload
Overcoming hard thinking problems
Breaking Up
Should I break up with my dependent clingy girlfriend?
I mis-read romance signals from girls I date.
Bullies vs. Whimps
I am always nice to people but they take advantage of me.
Bullying
Assertive vs. aggressive ways to deal with difficult classmates.
Busybodies
Should I report my friend's homosexuality to his family?
Career Change
I want to change my career but don't know how to go about it.
DON'T USE AS PODCAST I'm having difficulty switching careers
I'm concerned that my boyfriend wants to change careers.
Career Choice
Some tips on how to decide between several careers.
How can I choose between several careers?
My life has no special focus.
Career vs Boyfriend
I help everyone except myself, and this is causing romance problems.
Career vs Family
How do I decide between my career choice and working for my dad?
Career vs Friendship
Should I focus on moving to advance my career, or stay put to be with my best friend?
Career vs Mental Health
What problems might I encounter going back to work with schizoaffective disorder?
Career vs Romance
I can't agree with my boyfriend about where to live.
Casual Sex
Is true love compatable with casual sex?
Character
How can I tell if I am being used? (begins at 5 minutes 23 seconds)
Charity Pros and Cons
When is it proper or not to help someone in need
Cheating - Is He?
How can I tell if my boyfriend is cheating on me?
Cheating Boyfriend
I just found out that my boyfriend is cheating on me.
Child Abuse
I turned my own son in for child abuse.
Child Abuse - Signs of
How can I help my abused grandkids?
Child Anger
Daughter of ex alcoholic hurts herself.
Child Custody Tips
How to schedule sharing parent time after divorce.
Child Custody Victims
How can I minimize the bad effects on my child of my ex getting part custody?
Child Discipline
What are some techniques for proper discipline? (part 1 of 2) - a short interview with Teacher/Author Charlotte Cushman.
What are some techniques for proper child discipline (part 2 of 2) - a short interview with Teacher/Author Charlotte Cushman.
Child Management
Three simple child management skills - a short interview with parenting coach Cornelia Lockitch
Child Support
If I file for child supprt, will my wife bad-mouth me to my daughter?
Children Dating
Is 10 years old too young for my daughter to have a "boyfriend"?
Children vs Romance
My boyfriend wants kids but I can't physically have any.
Choices
Should I force my son to attend his beloved grandmother's funeral?
Choices and Conformity
(starts 5m 41s) I caught my friend drinking and smoking.
Choosing Sides
Choosing one side when two friends fight.
Clingy Ex.
My husband's ex won't let go after 20 years.
Clutter
Dealing with physical and mental clutter.
Why do I permit myself to surround myself with clutter?
Co-Worker Issues
I have a trouble making paranoid coworker.
Cognitive Therapy
What a first session of cognitive therapy is like - a short interview with Dr. Jeff Riggenbach.
What is Cognitive Therapy - A short interview with Dr. Jeff Riggenbach.
What is Cognitive Therapy? - A short interview with Dr. Jeff Riggenbach.
Combat Veteran Issues
Coping with the issues returning veterans face - a short interview with readjustment counselor Jay White
Commitment
My boyfriend's way of relating to me is all over the map.
I'm tired of being alone but my boyfriend won't commit.
After 25 years of marriage I want to have an affair.
My boyfriend does not want to commitment.
My boyfriend can't stop being close friends with his ex.
How do I stop a dead end relationship with a guy I love?
Commitment - Fear of
I am afraid of long term romantic relationships
Communicating With Kids
I often lose it with mythree teenagers.
Communication
I shut down when others talk about their problems.
Repairing a destroyed line of communication.
How can I resolve a communication problem with my coworker?
Why does my new wife want more time apart from each other?
Communication Concerns
My wife confessed that she thinks I am overbearing and lack ambition.
Communication Errors
I come across as selfish and insensitive.
Communication When Angry
Help! I'm always losing my temper with my wife.
Communication With Boyfriend
Was I right to slap my boyfriend?
Communication With Children
How to better understand and enjoy your child - a short interview with parenting coach Cornelia Lockitch.
Communication With Co-Workers
I am too aggressive with my co-workers
Communication With Daughter
No one knows why my boyfriend's daughter gives me the cold shoulder.
Communication With Mother
How can I best communicate with my 90 year old mother who talks continuously and exclusively about her fringe religion?
Communication With Wife
How can I tell my wife that her son has taboo fantasies?
Communictating Preferences
How to Understand Your Romantic Partner
Competing With His ex
My boyfriend is too close to his ex wife.
Complements
(starts at 2m 18s) False praise backfires
Compulsions
My compulsive hair pulling is ruining my social life.
Concentration
I continuously lose things and my mind drifts.
Confidence
Dealing with people who love to complain - a short interview with Dr. Andy Bernstein.
Conflicting Opinions
I live with my parents whom have different values.
Conflicting Values
I love two men.
Control - The Need For
After her brain surgery, my wife thinks I am too controling and wants a restraining order.
Controling Dad
I'm caught between my husband's and son's battles.
Controlled by Girlfriend
How can I keep my independence in the face of a controlling girlfriend?
Controlling Co-Worker
My supervisor refuses to deal with my controlling busybody co-worker.
Controlling Friend
My friend won't take no for an answer.
Controlling Husband
My husband keeps me from my kids
I cant cope with a husband who has a 1950's attitude about parenting and housework.
Controlling Mom
I wake up crying from my dreams about my abusive controling mom.
Controlling Wife
How can I deal with my controlling wife?
My wife tries to get me angry by pushing my buttons.
Conversation Tips
Two ways to make difficult conversations easier - a short interview with presenter Jean Moroney
Cooperation
I can't get my 12 year old to do chores.
Courage
A doctor risks his career on a new procedure
The psychological benefit of building courage and integrity by speaking up for your values - a short interview with seminar presenter Lin Zinser
Courage and Integrity
Building Courage and Integrity by speaking up for your rational values - a short interview with activist Lin Zinser
Courtship Dance
Should I pursue a romance or just remain friends?
Coworker Difficulties
I am unable to deal with my difficult coworkers
Coworker Issues
I'm ostracized by a group of my coworkers.
My coworker's paranoia causes problems for everyone.
Coworkers
How can I deal with my annoying coworker?
My coworkers think I am disagreeable and nuts.
What have I done to alienate my coworkers?
Creativity
Creative kids are happy kids - A short interview with Dr. Eric Daniels
Creepy Dreams
17 Year old girl is angry at and fearful of adults.
Criminal Minds
Why has our good parenting created a bad son?
Critical Parent
Why does my sister defend our father who only focuses on the negative in us?
Criticism
My mom can't take criticism.
How can I tactfully make suggestions to a sister who makes horrible life style decisions?
I always get teary about things.
How can I tactfully make suggestions to a sister who makes horrible lifestyle decisions?
Cruel to Animals
16 year old kills birds and does not know why.
Crying
Why do I cry uncontrollably when I argue with my parents?
Why did I cry uncontrollably after my heated verbal fight with a coworker?
Crying Uncontrollably
Why did I cry uncontrollably after my heated verbal fight with my coworker?
Curious or Selfish?
One of my triplets needs to be the center of attention.
Custody Issue
Grandma wants to let her son raise his own kids despite count ruling.
Custody Violation
My son doesn't want to return home after visiting his divorced dad.
Custody vs. Children
What is the effect of custody disputes upon children?
Cutting Ties
My adult daughter is irresponsible.
Cyber Stalking
My internet romance turned into bizarre stalking.
My internet romance turned bizarre
Dangerous Mom
Am I over paranoid in thinking that my violent mom is a danger to my child?
Dates; the 1st one
Dealing with a first date - a short interview with Dr. Don Kieffer
Dating
The wonderful value of experiencing romance, even if your partner decides to end it.
Some ways to meet potential dates - a short interview with Dr. Don Kieffer.
How can I ask out a girl whom I know has a boyfriend. (Begins at 3 minutes 58 seconds)
I'm dating an older woman and there is a lot of friction.
I have a hard time approaching women.
1-Is it ok to ask my boyfriend to move to my state? 2-Is there a problem if I make more money than my boyfriend?
Re-Entering The Dating World - A short interview with Dr. Don Kieffer
Dating After Divorce
How long should I wait to date after breaking up with my child's mom?
How can I want to date again after leaving an abusive relationship?
Dating as an Adult
How can I, as a divorced adult, get back into the dating scene?
Dating Danger Signs
Should I stay engaged or move on?
Dating Disclosures
I want to date but I have health problems.
Dating Failure
Why do I never get a second date?
Dating Gatekeepers
Adult woman has to sneak away from mom in order to date boyfriend.
Dating Nervousness
I am too nervous and self conscious to date
How can I better approach women?
Dating Reluctance
My son was romantically hurt and won't date anymore.
Dating Skills
How do I find a new girlfriend after a recent breakup?
Dating Tips
How can I approach women more easily?
Dating While Parenting
How old should my son be before I start dating again?
Dealing With Doubt
How should I deal with small nagging doubts I have about my girlfriend?
Dealing With Failure
I'm having trouble recovering from my lost health, job, wife, and happiness.
Dealing with Failure
Don't let setbacks or failures lower your future goals - a short interview with Dr. Judy Vanraalte.
Death Pre-Occupation
My young dad is pre-occupied with death and obituaries.
Death's Doorstep
Respecting the dying patient's choices and values - with Dr. Ed Martin
Delivering Difficult News - with Dr. Ed Martin
Death, Fear, and Afterlife
I don't believe in Hell, but death still terrifies me.
Deception
My friend started dating my ex. (podcast to be continued tomorrow)
Deciding to Decide
How do I decide among the boys in my life?
Decisions
My sister-in-law can't deal with changes in her routine or make decisions.
Deep Grief
I am tortured by the death of my nine year old daughter.
Defiant Child
I can't deal with my defiant ten year old.
Demonic Wife
Getting out of a vicious marriage.
Denial
My husband always sides with my son over me.
Dentist Phobia
People who freak out at the dentist.
Depressed and Withdrawn
My 16 year old lost interest in friends, school, dating, and family.
Depressing Thoughts
I need help getting over my depression.
Depression
My depression is ruining my romance.
depression
1-Art can boost or crush your spirit. 2-What can I do to regain the happiness of my youth?
What is the cause of my depression?
What is the best type of therapy for depression?
Discovering the cause of a man's depression
Psychological vs. Medical causes of depression
Depression - Sudden and Causeless
Out of the blue I woke up severely depressed
Depression and Fear
I'm 14 and so depressed that I don't want to do anything.
Depression and Guilt
This girl's depression is due to her swimming in unearned guilt.
Depression from Illness
I am depressed from the limits of my Cerebral Palsy.
Depression Meds
What can I do to get off my depression medication?
Depression Self-Caused
A 17-year old's depression is self-caused.
Depression Therapy
A cognitive therapy session for depression - a short interview with Dr. Judy Beck
Depression vs. Romance
My wife lacks confidence and seems depressed.
Destructive Child
My four year old wakes up every night and wrecks our house.
Detachment
My husband regularly feels like he goes into a different world.
Differences
My girlfriend is not at all as intimate as I am.
Discipline
To spank or spoil - a new perspective on parenting - a short interview with parenting coach Cornelia Lockitch.
My step kids won't do chores.
Disciplining the Mentally Handicapped
My mentally delayed temper tantrumed daughter wants me to pay for an apartment.
Discovering -No!-
My three year old son suddenly began testing limits.
Dishonest Boyfriend
My boyfriend lies about wanting to hire an "escort".
Dishonest Dating
My romantic partner lies and does not communicate.
Dishonest Divorcé
My abusive ex spoils and manipulates my son to dislike me.
Dishonest Friend
My friend lied in a big way.
Dishonest Girlfriend
My girlfriend told a major lie.
Dishonestly Dating
How can I repair a romance that I messed up by lying?
Dishonesty
I write bad checks.
Dishonesty Detection
How do I judge a good friend who spread a rumor about me?
Dishonesty's Revenge
I'm a reformed compulsive liar with friends who still believe my lies
Dishonesty, apologies, and forgiveness
My boyfriend does not trust me for trivial reasons.
Disobedience
My young son doesn't do what any adults tell him to do.
Divorce
Should I leave a partner whose self guilt is ruining our relationship?
How do I tell my husband that I no longer love him?
Should I stay with my druggy lying partner?
How can I decide if I should stay with my wife of many years?
How can I change my husband's mind about wanting a divorce?
My husband is sending me mixed messages about separating.
Divorce - Should I?
Should I leave my alcoholic unfaithful husband?
My wife is mentally and physically abusive.
Divorce and Children
My parent's divorce depressed me.
Divorce and Justice
I gave up my career for a man who wants a divorce.
Divorce, How to
How to back out of a marriage with an obese wife.
Divorce, maybe?
My husband does and does not want a divorce.
Divorce, Should I?
Should I stay with a husband who has both good and bad points?
Divorce- When to
Should I get a divorce after wife's third DWI?
Should I wait for my wife's confusions to pass, or should I protect myself and divorce?
Divorced and Looking
I'm newly divorced, want to meet women, but are unsure.
Divorced vs Un-divorce?
Should I get back together with an ex whom I worship?
Divorced, But Why?
My wife left me despite my catering to her every whim.
Dog Hatred
I love animals but why do I hope my husband's dog gets hit by a car?
Doubtful Romance
Is my boyfriend a pedophile?
Doubting my Choice
I am engaged but have feelings for another man.
Drug Recovery
How can I help my friend who has turned to drugs?
Drugs
How should I discipline my teenage step-son?
Earning Trust
How to question a spouse whom might be unfaithful.
Elder Care
Compassion without sacrifice
My siblings and I disagree about how to care for our aging mom.
Elder Care Issues
My mom is getting too psychologically dependent on me.
Electro Shock Therapy
Tell me about Electro Shock Therapy
Emotional Infidelity
How can I extinguish my desire for someone whom is not my wife?
Emotional Intimacy
Do men develop an emotional involvement more slowly than women?
Emotional Repression
My now emotionally repressed husband blames himself for my being raped.
I am trying to conquer my emotional repression by being over emotional.
Emotional Shutdown
Early abuse shutdown my ability to feel emotions.
Emotionally Distanced Dad
Why does my step daughter's abusive dad never call her by her name?
Emotionless
I am emotionally flat, even after a romantic breakup.
Emotions
How can I deal with the emotions from my separation from my husband?
My friend has a fear of expressing emotion.
Dealing with strong negative emotions (A continuation of yesterday's podcast)
Emotions - How to Understand Them
I took my bedroom mirror down because I am so depressed.
Emotions and War
My experience in Iraq - a short interview with adjustment counselor Jay White.
Emotions Explained
(starts at about 6m 30s) Are emotions right or wrong?
Emotions, Causes of
What could be some causes for my depression?
Ending a Romance
I'm getting signs that I should end my romantic relationship.
Engagement Fraud
My fiance of six years keeps delaying a wedding.
Envious People
Help me deal with an envious ex.
Envy
In my culture I have to hide my good looks.
How can I get along with my envious sister?
Envy; A Cure
I am envious of my friends good fortune
Equality in Romance
Romantic Equality (begins at 4 minutes 30 seconds)
Eroticism
What does it mean that my wife has erotic dreams?
Escape from Relationship
I need to escape from a bad romantic relationship.
Evaluating Potential Partners
How to tell if someone will be a good romantic partner?
Evaluating risk
I experience fear and anxiety from reading my medication warnings.
Evasion
God will forgive my husband for a murder he committed.
Evil Spirits
My fun boyfriend has a big problem - he thinks he is controlled by evil energy ghosts.
Exclusivity
My man has too many woman friends.
Expressing Affection Part 1 of 2
I am afraid to tell my girlfriend how I like her.
Expressing Love
I try to buy my girlfriend's happiness rather than express my love.
Failure
How can failure contribute to happiness ~ a short interview with Dr Eric Daniels
Fairy Tales vs. Mental Health
My son gets hysterically upset by fairy tales.
Faith, Reason, and Happiness
Why faith is an obstacle to happiness
Faked Happiness
I fake my happiness even though I sin.
Faked Love
I do not find my nice husband attractive.
Family
My boyfriend won't let me see my family.
Family Appeasement
My fiance's ex threatened to kill me if I meet his daughter.
Family Dynamics
My husband favors my daughter over me.
My son is good but my spoiled daughter favors my husband over me.
Mom, dad, kids, drifting apart due to love/hate relationships
Family Friction
My daughter-in-law won't let my son see me.
Family Problems
How can I save my marriage where I hate my controlling husband?
Fantasy
My friend can't tell the difference between dreams and reality
My boyfriend fantasizes about other women.
Fear
All day, alI I can think about is my death
Fear of Dying
For two years I have had many thoughts about dying.
I am very depressed because I can't stop thinking about death.
Fear of Living
(Starts at 3m 47s) I am afraid of life since seeing a documentry on 911
Fear of Neighbors
I am afraid of my aggressive neighbors.
Feelings vs Thinking
Making healthy decisions based on analyzed vs. unanalyzed emotions - a short interview with Dr. Steve Orma.
Fighting Kids
My four kids are constantly fighting with each other.
Finding a Career
I can't decide on a career.
Finding a Partner
Ways to Meet Potential Dates - a short interview with Dr. Don Kieffer.
Finding Happiness
Where can I go to learn how to find genuine happiness?
There IS a method ~ a short interview with author Craig Biddle
First Child
I'm crushed that I won't be able to give my fiance his first child.
Fixing a Boring Marriage
A sample cognitive therapy session dealing with couples issues - a short interview with Dr. Judy Beck.
Flourishing
How to make the most of your life - a short interview with Dr. Andy Bernstein.
Forced Sharing
1-How to say no to a child 2- Forced sharing - a short interview with Teacher/Author Charlotte Cushman.
Forgiveness
Should I forgive my dying mother?
Should I forgive my grandfather and my family for abusing me?
Forgiving Infidelity
If, when, and how to forgive or apologize when a partner has been unfaithful - a short interview with Dr. Tara Smith
Freedom and Happiness
Happiness requires freedom; Booker T Washington - a short interview with Dr Andy Bernstein
Do you take freedom for granted? A short interview with Dr. Andy Bernstein.
Friends vs Wife
My husband puts his friends before us.
Friendship
I'm anxious because I think my friend is avoiding me.
Friendship Ruined
How can I repair a relationship I ruined with my best friend?
Frustration
Four areas of life that will make your life flourish
My daughter has anger episodes due to her pain.
Gay Closet Anxiety
I feel a successful gay relationship is impossible
Gender Curiosity
My son likes to play with girl's toys and dress in skirts.
Gender Identity Influences
Should I worry that my two girls dress up my son as a girl?
Generosity
Should I toss my useless adult son out of my house?
Genital Deformity
How do I tell my girlfriend that I have a physical deformity?
Gifts
Help! I'm dating a cheapskate.
When gifts become a dis-value
Giving Up
(Starts at 7m 20s) Giving in to failure
Goal Setting
How to control your mind so you can reach your goals - a short interview with presenter Jean Moroney.
Goal Setting Tips
Tips for success in setting and achieving important goals - with Jean Moroney
Goals
I am aimless and have always waited for others to tell me what I should do.
Good looks
My girlfriend is perfect but I dislike her looks.
Grades Dropping
My 13 year old is starting to have school and behavior problems.
grief
How to regain happiness after loss of son, husband, and health.
Grief
I can't deal with the death of my violent brother whom I loved and hated.
Is terrible sadness normal after my perfect husband of 20 years died?
Is evasion of an issue always bad?
My aging friend lost her first and only love.
Grief and Children
My granddaughter lost her dad.
Grief and Depression
I'm too depressed to go on living.
Grief and Music
I fear that my bad romance will ruin the music I love.
Grief, Death, and Friendship
Help me get over the death of a dear friend.
Grieving Romantic Loss
I don't want my wife to divorce me.
GUIDING Your Child
A new perspective on parenting
Guilt - Unearned
Do you suffer from "unearned guilt" syndrome?
Guilt Unearned
Happiness around the world - a short interview with Dr. Andy Bernstein
I feel guilty because I lost my virginity due to playing sports.
Guilt: Earned or Unearned?
I feel guilty about many things that I do that are not wrong.
Guilty Divorce
In my heart I want my abusive husband back.
Guilty of Deceit
Why don't I feel guilty about my attraction to a married co-worker?
Guilty Romance
I am dying of guilt because I cheated with a coworker
Habits
I can't stop spelling everything I hear forwards and backwards.
Why do I habitually do strange things?
My wife puts all written words into alphabetical order.
Habits and Free Choice
How can I help my fiance stay faithful?
Habitual Liar
My habitual lying is ruining my marriage.
Handling Crises
How do you handle a mini-crisis?
Happiness
1-What happiness is and is not. 2-Why am I not happy unless I drink?
happiness
Does happiness depend on what your deepest beliefs are? - A short interview with Dr. Jeff Riggenbach
Why don't I want or try to be happy?
Is Happiness Actually Necessary?
Happiness - Obstacles to
What gets in the way of happiness? (starts at 4minutes 40seconds)
Happiness - The Rational Path
Does happiness require self-sacrifice or moral ambitiousness?
Happiness and Creativity
Happiness Helps Creativity Helps Happiness
Happiness and Independence
My happiness is totally dependent upon my boyfriend.
Happiness and Money
Can money buy happiness? A short interview with Dr. Tara Smith
Happiness Clarified
What exactly is happiness? A short interview with Dr.Tara Smith
Happiness Lost
I can't feel emotions due to my unaffectionate dad and I abandoned my own kid.
Happiness Obstacles
How your deepest ideas effect your happiness - a short interview with Dr. Jeff Riggenbach
Happiness requires . . .
Does happiness require self-sacrifice, or moral ambitiousness?
Happiness Throughout History
Happiness 2000 Years Ago
Harassed by Coworker
My coworker harasses me so much that I want to quit.
Hard Decisions
My boyfriend can't stop being friends with his ex.
Hard Thinking
Some ways to develop skills to deal with difficult issues
Hateful Son
Why does my 21 year old angry son hate me?
Hatred and Anger
1-Why do I hate my family? 2-My anger is getting out of hand.
Healing From Infidelity
My sister always reminds my wife that I was unfaithful one time only.
Hearing Voices
My daughter hears voices.
Heart vs Brain
Thinking and feelings - allies not enemies - a short interview with seminar presenter Jean Moroney.
Helpfulness
People dislike me for being helpful.
Hobbies
Advice for 'stay at home' moms - a short interview with author Craig Biddle
Homework
How can I get my third grader to do his homework?
Honesty
Help me stop lying to my wife about my innocent self-pleasuring.
My boyfriend rarely admits when he is wrong.
Honesty and Communication
Everyone lies, so why does my partner object to my lying?
Honesty and Timing
Is my honesty ruining my romantic relationships?
Hospice and Pain
Fears about pain management during a terminal illness - A short interview with Dr Ed Martin
Humility vs. Pride
Building good character
I am Invisible
My fiance treats me like a sex toy.
I Love You
When saying 'I love you' is meaningless
Illness vs. Romance
Is it okay to leave my boyfriend due to his illness?
Impatience
I am impatient and obsessive about my cautious boyfriend.
Impotence
My wife thinks my inability to "perform" is because I don't like her any more.
Impotency
My wife demands we have a child I can't produce.
Did my infidelity cause me to be impotent with my wife?
Impotency and Trust
My medication-induced intimacy problems are causing my wife to doubt my romantic commitment.
Inappropriate Behavior
My husband uses sexual slang around our young kids and pinches them inappropriately
Incestuous Fiancé
My daughter discovered her fiancé was once incestuous with his sister.
Indepencence
The importance of encouraging your child's independence - a short interview with parenting coach Cornelia Lockitch
independence
My psychologist constantly gives me mixed advice.
Independence
I am pre-occupied with what others think of me.
My student mentoring is more frustrating than rewarding.
My girlfriend thinks I should constantly be giving her money.
My religious parents try too hard to push it on me.
Loss of independence as you age (begins 7minutes 47seconds in)
Physical vs. intellectual independence; both are necessary for happiness.
My child always wants to do the opposite of what we want.
How can I tell my aunt to stop being a busybody?
I am preoccupied with what others think of me.
Independence from Kids
My adult kids abuse me.
Independent Children
Encouraging your child's independence - a short interview with parenting coach Cornelia Lockitch
How to raise your child to be independent - a short interview with parenting coach Cornelia Lockitch.
Infatuation
Dealing with romantic rejection
A 15 year old has an unhealthy crush on her teacher.
Infidelity
What should I due since my wife was unfaithful?
Six ways I processed my husband's infidelity.
I think my wife is having an affair.
infidelity
I'm dating a married man
How do I cope with the discovery that my wife loves someone else?
Evading the evidence that a spouse is unfaithful (begins exactly at 8 minutes)
What is an "affair" and why are they so tempting? A short interview with Dr. Tiffany Kisler.
Infidelity after Childbirth
My husband had an affair after I jokingly told him to.
Infidelity and Newlyweds
I am newlywed, pregnant, and my husband cheats.
Infidelity Causes
Some causes of infidelity - a short interview with Dr. Tiffany Kisler
Infidelity Damage Control
Controlling the damage when one partner has an affair - a short interview with Dr. Tiffany Kisler.
Infidelity On Line
I am remorseful for cheating but can't get her out of my mind.
Infidelity Online
My boyfriend has cybersex.
Infidelity Recovery
Controlling the damage from an affair - a short interview with Dr. Tifany Kisler.
Infidelity Temptation
What is an affair, and why are they so tempting?
Infidelity? Repairs.
How do you rebuild your relationship if you discover your partner had an affair? A short interview with Dr. Tiffani Kisler.
Insecurity
This bright 13 year old crys a lot and has many phobias.
Is my wife's recent weight gain the cause of her insecurity, anger, and suspicion I cheat?
Insecurity and Over Parenting (two parts)
1-I panic and withdraw whenever I get romantically close to someone. 2 (at 6m27s) Kids learn best by doing.
Institutionalized Unfairly
How can I prevent my wonderful grandson from being institutionalized?
Insults
Should I try to reconnect with a boyfriend with whom I exchanged strong insults?
Integrity
How can I make up for reading my friend's diary?
Intellectual Activism
How to take the first steps in defending your ideas - a short interview with activist Lin Zinser
Intellectual Confidence
How to engage in effective intellectual activism.
Internet Romance
I have a crush on my internet therapist.
Intimacy
Setting realistic expectations for what a healthy sexual relationship is like - a short interview with Dr. Barry McCarthy
Intimacy and Guilt
I try to not have sex with women I like because then I lose interest in them.
Intimacy Disinterest
My girlfriend lost interest in the romantic part of our relationship.
Intimacy Forever
Intimacy - Use it or Lose it. A short interview with Dr. Barry McCarthy.
Intimacy Nervousness
I am self conscious during intimacy.
Intimacy Obstacles
Some obstacles to sexual satisfaction, and some cures - a short interview with Dr. Tiffany Kisler
Intimacy Postpartum
My girlfriend lost interest in sex after our child was born.
Intimacy Problems
Identifying and fixing sexual problems that couples face - a short interview with Dr Gary McCarthy
Intimacy Tips
Preserve your romantic intimacy by using these communication tips, a short interview with Dr. Tiffany Kisler
Intimacy vs Health
Senior couple wants intimacy but can't due to health.
Intimate Forever
Marital Intimacy; keeping it alive - a short interview with Dr. Barry McCarthy
Irrational Mom
My mom is divisive regarding all us kids
Irresponsible Daughter
Am I enabling my irresponsible daughter by protecting her from her every mistake?
Irritability
Husband drives wife crazy complaining about all smells and noises.
Is he 'The One'?
How do you know when you have found the right match?
Jealousy
How can I deal with my jealousy?
I have become a mean jealous angry person.
I've ruined five marriages due to my demonic jealousy.
Jealousy Unjustified
My unjustified jealousy is driving me crazy.
Job Before Romance
I'm unemployed, handicapped, and want to find friends and romance
Job Loss
Losing my job has destroyed my personality.
Job Search
How to deal with job interview questions after my divorce and bankruptcy
Job stagnation
How can I handle a job I do not like?
Job vs Career
Just Getting By' in school or your job - a short interview with Dr. John Lewis.
Judging Behavior
How can I tell if my boyfriend still likes me?
Judging Character
My mom is overbearing about my romantic life.
How can I choose between my two friends who hate each other?
Judging Others
The consequences of refusing to judge others - a short interview with Dr. Tara Smith.
Justice
Which is more important in dispensing justice - rewards or punishments? - a short interview with Dr. Tara Smith.
Why some people don't want you to pass judgment on others - a short interview with Dr. Andy Bernstein
My fiancé won't stop his toxic daughter from ruining my desire to marry him.
Should I visit my mean, abusive, but dying mom?
I get angry at rude disrespectful co-workers whom do not appreciate my hard work. (Begins at 5minutes 13 seconds)
My fiance won't stop his toxic daughter from ruining my desire to marry him.
My family shuns me because I identified a family thief.
Justice vs. Moral Equivalence
The injustice of blaming the victim
Kiddy Sex
How should I deal with my 12 year old's sexual experience?
Kiddy-Play
My young son touches girls.
Kids and Divorce
My wife tells my daughter that I lie
Kids and Sports
Tips to help your kids (and yourself) enjoy sports - a short interview with Dr. Judy Vanraalte.
Kids vs. Romance
I have to choose between my kids and my girlfriend.
Laughter
My sister drives me and her co-workers crazy with her constant random giggling.
Lazy Husband
My husband does not help around the house.
Learning From Experience
How to learn to learn from experience - A short interview with seminar presenter Jean Moroney
A great way to learn: experience - a short interview with seminar presenter Jean Moroney.
Learning From Mistakes
Experience as a great source for learning - a short interview with seminar presenter Jean Moroney
Letting Go
How can I help a friend exit a bad marriage?
My boyfriend still wants to be friends with his ex.
My boyfriend refuses to get rid of porn photos of his old girlfriends.
Liar's Guilt
(begins at 4m 51s) My guilt from cheating has ruined my life.
Life Balance
Finding a balance between work, romance, and all parts of your life - a short interview with seminar presenter Jean Moroney.
Life's Purpose
I don't know what my role in society should be.
Living a Lie
I am not physically attracted to my otherwise good husband.
Loneliness
I am a lonely schizophrenic.
I can't make any friends after my wife died.
I’ve never had a romantic relationship.
I'm lonely since I moved to a new area, even though I don't miss my friends.
Lonely Child
My ten year old niece hears voices.
Lonely for Brother
My older brother seems more emotionally distant since he moved far away.
Loss of a Pet
I am tortured with the knowledge that my dog will soon die.
Lost Love
Should I stay with my unfaithful wife only for the sake of my kids?
Lovability
I deal with my insecurity and mistrust of others by being pompous.
Lying Child
My granddaughter lies and boasts.
Lying to Kids
Is lying to a child ever okay?
Lying vs. Romance
I can't stop lying.
Making Friends
I lack social skills and am lonely.
Malpractice
How to spot a phony psychologist
Managing Behavoir
Three simple child management skills - a short interview with teacher Cornelia Lockitch
Manic Depression
What is the difference between depression and manic depression?
Marital Intimacy
Marital Intimacy; Use it or Lose it - a short interview with Dr. Barry Mccarthy
Marriage Happiness
What makes for a long happy marriage? A short interview with Dr. Judy Kurianski
Massage
How massage can help you learn more about your partner and enhance your relationship - a short interview with Counselor Gretchen Mason
Massage and Health
The health benefits of single and couples massage
Massage and Romance
How massage can help your romantic relationship - a short interview with therapist Gretchen Mason.
Massage Barriers
Some psychological barriers to getting a massage - a short interview with Dr Gretchen Mason
Massage Benefits
How can massages help you with stress reduction and sensuality?
How massage can help sensuality and reduce stress a short interview with therapist Gretchen Mason.
Mean Behavior
How can I make my mean boyfriend want me?
Meditation
What are your thoughts about meditation?
Memories - Tips to Trigger
I can't remember much of my youth
Memory Loss
I am only 16 but am afraid I am losing my memory.
Mental Blank
Why does my mind go blank when I try to start a conversation?
Mental Block
It takes me hours to express what should take seconds.
Mental Infidelity
A married woman has super hots for a married man.
Mental Overload
The cure for mental overload; thinking on paper - a short interview with seminar presenter Jean Moroney
The cure for mental overload is to think on paper - a short interview with presenter Jean Moroney
Mental Overload and Doubt
The two most common roadblocks to clear thinking ~ a short interview with presenter Jean Moroney
Mental Self Control
How to control your mind so you can reach your parenting goals - A short interview with seminar presenter Jean Moroney.
Messy Room
Help me get my boys to clean their messy rooms.
Miscarriage
Why is my miscarriage causing my emotions to yo-yo up and down?
Misunderstandings
Misinterpreting your partner's behavior - a short interview with Dr. Cory Newman
Misunderstanding your partners behavoir - A sample marital therapy session interview with Dr. Cory Newman.
Mom vs. Step Mom
At what age do I tell my child the truth about my divorce?
Mom vs. Stepmom
My ex’s new wife wants custody of my kids! (Starts at 6 minutes 10 seconds)
Mom vs. Therapist
My mom thinks her advice is better than my going to a therapist.
Money and Happiness
Why do so many people feel guilty spending their hard earned money on themselves? A short interview with Dr. Tara Smith
How and why you obtain money can build or ruin your chances for happiness.
Money and Romance
My boyfriend refuses to discuss his spendthrift ways
Money as Virtuous
Money: The Root of all Evil or The Root of Human Flourishing?
Money: Virtue or Vice?
Money: Root of all evil, or root of human flourishing - a short interview with Dr. Tara Smith.
Mood Swings
Am I bipolar or have PTSD?
Moods
What can I do about my PTSD and being bipolar?
Morality vs. Happiness
Some moral codes cause only unhappiness.
Mother-In-Law Issue
How to fix a marriage made difficult by my mother-in-law.
Motivation
How to stay motivated in sports and in life - a short interview with Dr. Judy VanRaalte
Why can't I get around to divorce my cheating wife?
Motivation and Success
The value of motivation - a short interview with Dr. John David Lewis
Motivation by Values
1-I have become terribly lazy 2-I think my view of love is irrational.
Moving On
Help me to accept that our 7 year marriage is ending.
My Increasing Dementia
How can I enjoy my remaining short life?
My Indifferent Mom
Is my empty feeling due to not bonding with my mom?
My Money
I don't feel I have the moral right to my hard earned money.
Mysterious Break-Up
My ex won't tell me why she broke up with me.
Mysterious Coworker
Should I worry about a co-worker who never talks about their outside life?
Mysterious Emotions
Why am I angry and cry all the time?
Myths About Slefishness
What selfishness actually is - a short interview with Journalist Peter Schwartz
Nagging and Complaining
My girlfriend is always nagging me and complaining.
Negative Emotions
I'm mean to others due to my stress.
Negative Thoughts
Dealing with negative thoughts that keep you unhappy - a short role play with Dr.Judy Beck.
Neighbor Wars
My neighbor won't stop doing things that annoy me.
Nightmares
What is causing my nightmares?
My friend has gruesome nightmares about his druggy girlfriend.
No Friends
I can't help thinking that no one cares about me.
1-I'm a stay at home mom with no friends. 2-Should men talk with other men about their emotions?
No Happiness
Why haven't I ever been happy?
Nosy Sister
My sister gave out copies of my private journal.
Nudity; Beautiful vs Offensive
My long distance boyfriend views erotica instead of nude pictures of me.
Obesity Reversal
I can't overcome my procastination and weight problem.
Obsessions
Woman constantly carries 10 water bottles but never drinks from them.
Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (1 of 2)
I have been checking and re-checking things all day long since childhood
Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (2 of 2)
Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD)
My OCD is driving me to feel and do crazy things.
OCD and Bi-Polar
I'm ruining my prefect romantice relationship due to my OCD and Bi-Polar emotional outbursts.
Older Men
I love a man 23 years my senior.
Out of Control Kids
Help, my kids are totally out of control.
Over-Parenting
My wonderful daughter suddenly left home.
My parents are controlling psychos
Overweight
My marriage is not working due to my weight gain.
Overweight vs. Sexuality
I lost desire for my girlfriend since she gained weight.
Panic Attacks
After a bad air flight, I have continued panic attacks about everything.
I am scared to attend any social events.
Paranoia
I can't cope with my boyfriends psycholigical issues.
Parental Bonding
My son bonded with my mom rather than me.
Parenting
How can I improve my relationship with my young daughter when my nasty ex won't say no to her?
How can I stop my 3 year old from having temper tantrums?
Three simple child management skills - a short interview with parenting coach Cornelia Lockitch.
I must have a baby if I am to be happy. (begins at 8 minutes 2 seconds)
Parents and my Ex.
My parents and my ex. husband seem like they gang up against me.
Partners in Romance
How to create a genuine romantic partnership - a short interview with Dr.Edwin Locke.
Passing Judgment
Why some people don't want you to pass judgment on others ~ a short interview with Dr. Andy Bernstein
Past Lovers
I'm tortured about any men in my girlfriend's past.
Paying Attention
How can I stop my thoughts from wandering when other people talk?
Peacekeeper Mom
One family member always ruins family events.
Perfection as a duty
My son is a perfectionist and hates criticism.
Perfectionism
Are you a perfectionist? What is this? Is this good or bad? A short interview with seminar presenter Jean Moroney.
Perseverance
I always want to quit when I try new ventures.
Personality Change
My husband's unstable personality bounces all over the ball park.
My 16 year old outgoing cousin suddenly withdrew into a fantasy world.
Personality Disorders
I feel like I am two different people - a young girl, and a psychopath man.
Pet Assisted Therapy
Pet Assisted Therapy - a short interview with Pearl Salotto
Peter Pan Syndrome
I'm terrified of growing up.
Pets, Loss of
I'm terrified with the knowledge that my dog will soon die.
Phobias
I get anxious when I have to talk to new people.
My young daughter has a phobia about the weather.
Pleasure and Intimacy
Enjoying and Enhancing Romantic Intimacy - A short interview with Dr. Judy Kurianski.
Polygamy
I am in an unhappy polygamist relationship.
Porn Discovery
My kids found porn on my husband's phone.
Porn vs Romance
My 10 year porn addiction competes with my desire for my wife.
Porn vs. Me
Why does my boyfriend use porn when he has me?
Porn vs. Romance
How can I save my marriage after my wife discovered my porn addiction.
Pornography (1 of 2)
Porn as a substitute for intimacy
Pornography (2 of 2)
Porn as a substitute for intimacy (begins at 7 minutes 20 seconds)
Prayer
Prayer - Pros and Cons - a short interview with Dr. Ed Buckner
Priorities
I want and do so many things but I can't prioritize.
Problem Child
How can I merge our families when one son is an extreme problem?
Problem Solving
The two most commmon roadblocks to problem solving; overload and doubt - a short interview with seminar presenter Jean Moroney
Procrastination
What can I do to stop procrastinating at work?
My procrastination is effecting both my marriage and my work.
Reasons we Procrastinate
Property Rights
My husband dumped garbage on our neighbors property.
Proud of Wealth
Why do so many people feel guilty spending their own money on themselves? A short interview with Dr. Tara Smith.
Psychics and the 'Paranormal'
Why are some people interested in the 'paranormal'? A short interview with Dr. Ed Buckner
Psychological Independence
The importance of giving your child psychological independence - a short interview with Dr. John Lewis
Psychological Survival
I am dealing with endless serious physical and psychological trauma.
Psychological Trauma
Psychological first aid in cases of trauma - a short interview with Dr. James Campbell
Psychological first aid in cases of trauma ~ a short interview with Dr James Campbell
Public Speaking Panic
I can't shake my fear of public speaking.
Punishment Alternatives
My son was forced to keep his desk in school facing sideways all semester.
Punishment Backfires
My nine year old daughter was caught stealing several times.
Purpose and Meaning of Life
I don't know what the purpose of my life should be.
Purpose and Productivity
My life has gone down the tubes after I quit my job voluntarily.
Racist Mom
My mom won't speak to me because I have black friends.
Rain Phobia
My child is afraid to go outside.
Rap Music
Is rap music legitimate?
Rational Happiness
What happiness is and is not (begins at 5 minutes 00 seconds)
Reason vs. Emotions
Which do you base healthy decisions on; analyzed or unanalyzed emotions ~ a short interview with Dr. Steve Orma.
Rebellious Daughter
My 12 year old daughter became rebellious over a boy.
Reconciliation
Should I remarry an ex husband who wants to reconcile?
Recovering From Abuse
How can I better face the problems of my abusive childhood?
Recovering From an Affair - Controlling the damage from an affair - a short interview with Dr. Tiffany Kisler
Controlling the damage from an affair - a short interview with Dr. Tiffany Kisler
Regrowing Love
Does love have to be earned?
Rejected by Son
My adult son won't talk to me after my wife died.
Relationship Tips
Are my difficulties with my fiance normal?
Religion vs. Character
My criminal boyfriend found religion but regularly gets headaches and is depressed.
Remarriage Issues
My remarriage is filled with misery, distrust, and seven kids.
Repairing a Friendship
My best friend thinks I am abandoning her if I find more frineds.
Repairing My Marriage
I am a bad husband
Reparations
My friends judge me by bad things my ancestors did.
Repressed all Emotions
I am repressed and can't seem to make lasting friendships.
Repressed Boyfriend
Should I keep dating a guy who is emotionally closed?
Repression
I do not handle disagreements with my boyfriend well.
Repression - Tips to Overcome
My husband and I are accused of being too unemotional to raise kids.
Resentful Caretaker
I am becoming resentful of having a dependent blind partner.
Resolving Conflict
I have problems resolving conflicts with my spouse.
Respect
Why do I long for my past boyfriend rather than my current one?
Responsibility
Should I stay with a boyfriend whose adult son is out of control?
Roller Coaster Emotions
I have uncontrollable roller coaster emotions.
Romance
I am desperately in love with a woman who broke up with me.
Romance Styles
Healthy Romance vs. Traditional Romance - A short interview with Dr. Edwin Locke
Romance Tips
How to choose a romantic partner.
Romance vs Depression
I want to trick my depressed grandmother into thinking that she has a secret admirer.
Romance vs. Career
I hate living in the city with my boyfriend.
Romance vs. Independence
How do I choose between my romance and my independence?
Romance vs. School
Should I give up school for a relationship with a wonderful guy?
Romance Without Romance
Romance Without Sex
I am not sexually attracted to the girl I love.
Romantic Breakup
I can't deal with an unexpected romantic breakup.
Romantic Exclusivity
Romantic Reconciliation
How do I get back my girlfriend who broke up with me?
sacrifice
How can I avoid my old habit of being a doormat for others?
Sacrifice Backfired
How can I regain my self-confidence after my romantic breakup?
Sacrificed my Job
I gave up my great job because my husband insisted his job was more important.
Sadness
How do I shake my feeling so blue?
Why might we cry at happy occasions?
Why do I get sad every time I talk with my wonderful dad?
Safety
I want to drive fast
Scary Movies
I am haunted by a movie I saw as a kid.
Schizoaffective disorder
I can't get a job due to my past mental health issues.
Schizophrenia
How can I self treat my own schizophrenia and hallucinations?
Seductive Neighbor
I worry about my husband's relationship with our sexy neighbor.
Self Confidence
My controlling boss is also my controlling boyfriend.
How can I regain my self confidence after my deeply romantic partner hurt me so deeply?
Self Conscious
I am uncomfortable in groups of more than one or two people.
Self Doubt
My mind constantly races with thoughts of self doubt
Self Esteem
I am ugly and unhappy
How to gain control over how you feel about yourself
I have no self confidence
I don't deserve to have friends.
Self Harm
My daughter tried to jump from a moving car.
Self Image
I am terribly unhappy with my large breasts.
Self-Control
I yell at my kids unless I smoke.
Self-Esteem
My great bright girlfriend has low self-esteem.
Is self-esteem important to children?
Self-Help
Why do you (Dr. Kenner) tell us to analyze our own thoughts and feelings so much?
Self-Isolation
Teenage son retreats from life into video games at the expense of his parents relationship.
Since my wife died, I am scared of most everything and have avoided others.
Self-Paralysis
I have numbed myself to all emotions due to family tragedies.
Self-Pleasure
(starts at 5m 44s) Young adult asks if he is over-sexed (starts at 5m 44s)
Selfish vs. Self Destructive
Myths about Selfishness - a short interview with journalist Peter Schwartz
Selfish?
My husband says that if I really loved him, I would eat what he cooks more often.
Selfishness
Selfishness; Is it actually bad? A short interview with Journalist Peter Schwartz
Why do you (Dr.Kenner) claim love is selfish?
Isn't it selfish to follow your advice about assertive communication?
Selfishness vs. Sacrifice
Rational selfishness or blind sacrifice - which one leads to happiness? A short interview with activist Lin Zinser.
Selfless
I'm going crazy because I can't stop thinking about this girl.
Senility
My elderly mom is losing it.
Senior Dating
Sixty year old divorcee asks how to find a good woman.
Sensuality
Is my zero interest in sensuality normal?
Setting Limits
My 12 year old daughter was invited to a birthday party featuring bathing suit oil wrestling.
Sex and Character
I want intimacy with my boyfriend, but he hurts my feelings.
Sex and Pain
My medical pain from sex is destroying my marriage.
Sex as a Sacrifice
I can't get romantic with men I care about.
Sex No More
My wife stopped wanting sex after our child was born.
Sex Problem or Relationship Problem?
Why most sex problems are relationship problems.
Sex Starved
The importance of repairing a sex starved marriage - a short interview with Michele Weiner Davis
How to repair a sex starved marriage - a short interview with Dr. Michelle Weiner Davis
Sex Starved?
What is a sex starved marriage?
Sex Therapy
Some myths about sex therapy - a short interview with Dr. Barry McCarthy.
What is Sex Therapy? A short interview with Dr. Barry McCarthy
Sex vs. Romance?
I am more interested in the sex than the romance.
Sexless
(starts at 6m 13s) My husband no longer has a romantic bone in his body.
My fiance was raped and now hates sex.
Sexperimentation
Kiddy-play in not a sex problem in kids.
Sexual Abuse
I am afraid to start any romantic relationships due to being sexually abused when young.
How can I discover if I was sexually abused at age 3?
Sexual Harassment
(begins at 4m 37s) I am haunted four years after being sexually harassed.
Sexual Myths
Myths about sexuality, including; frequency, spontaneity, intensity, age - with Dr Tiffany Kisler.
Sexual Pleasure Evolving
Enjoying and nurturing your sex life - a short interview with Dr. Judy Kurianski
Sexual Pressure
I rejected my girlfriend because she withheld sex.
Sexual Problems
Sexual problems couples face: a short interview with Dr. Barry McCarthy
Sexual Satisfaction
Setting realistic romantic expectations - a short interview with Dr. Barry McCarthy
Sexuality
Sexual problems couples face - A short interview with Dr. Barry McCarthy
Sexually Mismatched
Newly married couple is romantically mismatched.
Sexy Photos
Some different perspectives
Shy Child
My young child is extremely shy
Shyness
How to overcome my shyness and escape an abusive relationship.
I fear if I tell my friend I love her I will lose her as a friend.
Shyness vs Confidence
Why am I shy, meek, and lack confidence?
Sibling Rivalry
Five year old hits and has anger control problems.
My son instigates arguments
Signs of an Abusive Partner
(starts at 4m56s) Signs of an Abusive Partner
Signs of Child Abuse
Silent Treatment
My boyfriend deals with issues by using the silent treatment.
Sister Friction
How do I deal with the fact that my sister did not go to my mom's funeral?
Sleep Anxiety
My college son can't sleep because he is afraid he can't sleep.
Sober For Good
My approach to studing alcoholism problems - a short interview with researcher Ann Fletcher.
Sociability
I don't get along with people.
Social Anxiety
I can't make eye contact with anyone, even with my family.
My husband has become a couch potato with social anxiety.
How can I help my son be more comfortable at public speaking?
Overcoming the social anxiety of dating
I am so socially anxious that I have no friends and can't leave the house
Why do I get so nervous in social situations?
Soulmate?
Soulmate? How should I evaluate a prospective soulmate?
Speaking Up
How to take the first steps to defend your ideas - a short interview with activist Lin Zinser.
Speeding Laws
I like to drive very fast.
Spiteful Ex.
Dealing with my anger due to a spiteful ex.
Sports
Why do we value sports so much? - a short interview with Dr. Judy VanRaalte
Stages of Romance
Youth to Seniors; The typical stages of intimacy and romance - a short interview with Dr. Tiffany Kisler
Stepdad vs. Dad
My bio-daughter wants her stepdad to walk her down the aisle.
Stinking Thinking
Dealing with those depressing negative thoughts that keep you so unhappy - a short interview with Dr. Judy Beck.
Stress
Reducing stress via assertiveness - a short interview with Dr. Edwin Locke
Coping with stress - a short interview with Dr. Steve Orma
My stress is starting to effect me physically.
Stress Management
Stress Management: Coping with stress overload - a short interview with Dr. Steve Orma.
Stress Reduction
Reducing stress by being assertive - a short interview with Dr Edwin Locke
Stress Reduction Tips
My kids are killing me with stress.
Stress vs. Family Time
(starts at 6m 38s) The effects of a stressful job upon family life.
Stress, Coping With
Two ways to cope with stress - a short interview with Dr. Edwin Locke
Stressful Career
Key factors causing stress and anxiety - a short interview with Dr. Edwin Locke
Student Housing
My dad does not want me to live with him while I am a student.
Substance Abuse
How cognitive therapy might treat substance abuse.
Suicide
I hate my boring life enough to end it.
Help me fight thoughts of suicide.
Are there pros and cons to suicide? (starts 7 minutes 22 seconds in)
Suicide vs Vacation
I had a horrible past and I'm not afraid of dying.
Suicide, Teenage
I need to help my suicidal friend get over some rough times.
Super Brat
My little brother flip flops between being bratty and kind.
Suspicion
How can I stop falsely accusing my husband of infidelity?
Suspicious of Boyfriend
Should I end a relationship having both good and bad aspects?
Teased
I have always been teased as a kid by my family and school mates.
Teen Fantasies
How to tell my wife that her son has taboo fantasies.
Teen Sex
Sex is becoming a diluted value for youth.
Teenage Communication
How do you get through to a teenager's mind?
Teenage Mom
Did having children contribute to ruining my marriage?
Teenage Parents
Teaching teens the downside of having a baby
Temper Tantrums
Help me deal with an eight year old's temper tantrums.
How can I handle my three year old's temper tantrums?
Temptation
What is an affair, and why are they so tempting? A short interview with Dr. Tiffany Kisler
The First Session
The Gay Closet
I just got exposed to HIV from a gay encounter.
The Guilt Trap
My step children use guilt to get the clothes they want.
The Meaning of Life
How can I be happy if my life has no meaning and I am afraid of getting old this way?
The Value of Sports
Why do we value sports so much?
Therapist Ethics
My boyfriend fell in love with his therapist.
Therapy Panic
I have panic attacks before seeing my therapist.
Thinking Mistakes
How to deal with any overpowering lousy thoughts you might have - a short interview with Dr. Jeff Riggenbach
Thinking Problems
How to handle hard thinking problems - A short interview with Seminar Presenter Jean Moroney
Thoughts vs. Feelings
Thinking and feeling - allies, not enemies.
Threats vs. Active Listening
My bright teenager can't focus in school.
Time Management
How to manage your time well - a short interview with Seminar Presenter Jean Moroney
Do you often waste your time? Overcoming time management difficulties - a short interview with presenter Jean Moroney.
Too High Expectations
I am so emotional about separating from my husband.
Tourette Syndrome Child
Trauma
What is a trauma expert? A short interview with Dr. James Campbell
Trust
My fiancé loves animals because he doesn't trust people.
My girlfriend's roommates don't trust me.
I no longer trust anyone since my wife cheated with my best friend.
I'm having trust issues in my romantic relationship.
I don't trust my girlfriend who is starting college
My 18 year marriage has become a nightmare.
Trust and Commitment
Why did my married boyfriend of 30 years give me a ring?
Tuition Sharing
My kids want me to subsidize my grandson's education.
Unattractive
I deeply love a woman whom I find very unattractive.
Undecided
My indecisive boyfriend has turned my world upside down.
Unearned Guilt
Two views about pre-marital sex.
Enjoying your life at no one's expense.
My brother abuses my parents
Unearned Guilt-How to crush a man’s soul. (begins at 5 minutes 10 seconds)
(starts 7m39s) How to rule someone else's mind.
Unearned Guilt Syndrome
Do you suffer from "Unearned Guilt" Syndrome? - A short interview with Dr. Steve Orma
Do you suffer from -Unearned Guilt- Syndrome?
Unfaithful Husband
How should I deal with my cheating husband?
Unjust Suspicion
My fiance broke off our engagement after 30 days due to a total misunderstanding.
Unreachable Parents
Make your kids feel listened to.
Unwanted Advice
How can I get my adult son to make better choices?
Unwanted Romance
An old unpleasant girlfriend has made an unwelcome re-appearance into my life.
Unwanted Thoughts
My young son was disturbed by a movie sex scene.
How can I stop intrusive unwanted memories from hijacking my current thoughts?
Unwed Dad
I worry if my obese girlfriend is pregnant.
Vague Instructions
How should I deal with vague instructions or questions from a superior coworker?
Values - The Big Four
People are put off by my lack of emotion.
Values and Happiness
My wife has a life long depression about everything.
Verbal Abuse
I am an adult living with a verbally abusive mom.
Veterans
Issues facing our returning vets - a short interview with adjustment counselor Jay White
Veterans Issues
How to understand and help with the issues faced by returning vets. - A short interview with adjustment counselor Jay White.
How to cope with the issues returning vets face a short interview with adjustment counselor Jay White.
Video Games
All my kids want to do is watch TV and play video games.
Violence
Warning signs of a potentially violent co-worker - A short interview with Dr. James Campbell
violence
Warning signs of potential workplace violence. A short interview with Dr. James Campbell
How to respond to a threat of violence - a short interview with Dr. James Campbell.
Violent Brother
How can I get over the death of a violent brother whom I both loved and hated?
Violent Husband
I need help dealing with my violent husband.
Visitation
How can I make my visits positive for my son?
Visitation (Parental)
Should I force my shy very young daughter to visit unsupervised with a dad she never met?
Visitation by Abuser
Will my son experience emotional damage by being forced into visitation with his abusive father?
Wandering Eyes
I fell in love with a younger man.
War
What was it like to serve in Iraq? A short interview with counselor Jay White
War Veterans
Some Issues Facing Our Returning Veterans - a short interview with adjustment counselor Jay White.
Weight Loss
Why don't I feel guilty about being overweight?
What Women Want
I wish guys knew what we want in a relationship.
White Lies
Why they are harmful to your mental health.
Why do I Hate
I don't know why I hate my husband and want to leave him.
Why Overeat?
What are the psychological causes of overeating?
Wife vs. Friend
My husband pays more attention to his friend than to me.
Withdrawn and Angry
Work vs. Children
How my son showed me the importance of being a dad.
Work vs. Family
My wife's career is at odds with our family life.
Workaholic
I'd rather go to work than be with my own family.
Workplace Liars
Bullies and liars at work have caused co-workers to be fired.
Workplace Violence
The stress at work is driving me crazy.
Yo Yo Divorce
My husband wants a divorce, then to date, then to remarry me.
You Idiot!
Young Romance
My kid and step kid seem to be romantically curious.
Young Sex
My son developed grieving problems after day died.
Young Son Steals
Why does my young son steal and tell damaging lies?
Your Core Ideas
What role do your deepest ideas play in how happy you are? A short interview with Dr. Jeff Riggenbach.