The Rational Basis® of Happiness Podcast

-Romance Guidebook

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1-Abuse 2-Sadness

1-Signs of an abusive relationship 2-Why don't I like myself or others?

1-Anger 2-Envy 3-Friendship vs Romance

1-My fiance can't handle being pregnant since I lost my job. 2-Stay away from envious people 3-Women like me, but only as a friend.

1-Anxiety 2-Shyness

1-What is the cause of my depression and anxiety? 2-After 20 years my husband avoids affectionate contact

1-Dating Anxiety 2-Child Abuse Signs (starts at 4m 57s) 3-Peer Pressure (starts at 6m 55s)

1-My girlfriend doesn't call 2-My son is afraid of me 1-Psychological Independence

1-Dating Flip Flop 2-Selfishness is not...

1-My flip flopping boyfriend suddenly wants to end our relationship. 1-Selfishness is not being a bully

1-Depressed about Career 2-Stressful effects of Divorce

1- Family is dysfunctional due to depressed dad. 2-Why am I stressed? (Dad told mom he didn't love her anymore.)

1-Depression Tips 2-Communication

1-Tips to reduce depression 2-Why does my husband not focus on that I say?

1-Expressing Affection Part 2 of 2 2-procrastination

1-I am afraid to tell my girlfriend how I like her. 2-Stopping procrastination

1-Family Baggage 2-Gayness and Ethics

1-My girlfriend's kid controls her. 2- (starts at 6m 9s) Is it immoral to be gay?

1-Getting Old 2-Unemotional Partner (keep this order for podcast)

1-Does old age have to mean no romance? 2-My boyfriend lacks emotion.

1-Gossip 2-Abuse 3-Sincerity

1-Unsupported accusations of infidelity 2-I hit my wonderful but irrational girlfriend 3- Phony vs. genuine pleasantries

1-Husband's Hidden Life 2-Career Failure

1-My husband's excessive spending is a mystery 2-My husband won't abandon his money-losing career.

1-Independence 2-Dating

1-Physical vs. Intellectual Independence 2-How can I ask our a girl whom already has a boyfriend?

1-Infertility 2-''I can't help myself''

1-My boyfriend wants kids that I can't have. 2-Invented mental diseases

1-Love is what? 2-Stress 3-Unearned Guilt

1-Is love sacrifice or selfish? 2-13 year old cries nightly 3-Dad insists I be a doctor

1-Obesity 2-Abuse in Romance 3-Pain

1-What's the use (starts at 0m0s) 2-Kid hates stepdad (starts at 2m01s) 3-Thinking away pain (starts at 6m57s)

1-Open Marriage 2-Tactfulness (Use same order for podcast)

1-My husband wants me to be intimate with other men. 2-I say things at the wrong time and place.

1-Romance 2-Moods 3-Emotions

1-How to evaluate a romantic partner 2-Why am I always in a strange mood? (starts 3m3s) 3-What are emotions? (starts 3m37s)

1-Roving Eyes 2-Stale Romance

1-I have feelings for a man who is not my fiance 2-My husband is no longer romantic

1-Sexual Identity 2-Phobias

1-I think I am a lesbian 2-My child is afraid of rain (2 of 2)

1-Sexuality 2-Forced Emotions

1-Why do I find my neighbor's loud sex to be disgusting? 2-Can I force myself to have positive emotions?

1-Teenagers 2-Boyfriends

1-How to stay close with your teenagers 2-Why do I always need to change boyfriends?

1-Wife vs. Friends 2- Engagement Fail

1-My husband prefers the company of friends 2-After 11 years my fiance wants to end it.

Abandoned Family (1 of 2)

Is it okay for my young son to meet a father he has never known?

Abuse - Signs of

I'm trapped in a romantic, but abusive relationship.

Abuse by Boyfriend

My boyfriend hits, chokes, and insults me.

Abusive and Angry

How can I deal with my my husband who has anger and abuse issues?

Abusive Boyfriend

My future brother in law is a tyrant.

Abusive Boyfriend

Why do I love my abusive boyfriend?

Abusive ex.

My ex husband psychologically abuses me.

Abusive Husband

Is my husband abusive enough to leave him?

Abusive Relationships

(starts at 3m48s) Signs of Abuse in a Romantic Relationship

ADHD and Choice Making

How an I get my boyfriend to take his ADHD medications?

Adult Virginity

Should I tell my girlfriend that I am a 36 year old virgin?

Affair With Friend

How do I deal with my husband's emotional internet affair?

Age Difference in Romance

I can't think clearly about my new romance due to the stress from my divorce.

Age Gap Romance

My sister is in love with a questionable man 20 years older.

Anger

I can't get past my anger over my cheating husband.

Anger at Infidelity

I can't get past my anger at my husband for being unfaithful.

Anger Control

How can I control my being angry at my girlfriend?

Anger-Dealing With

How to deal with stress from when my handicapped wife unjustly attacks me.

Anxious About Dating

Overcoming the social anxiety of dating - a short interview with Dr. Steve Orma.

Apologies

How much apology is too much?

Apologies

My husband won't apologize when he unintentionally hurts my feelings.

Appeasement; Individual and Political

Appeasement does not work, both in personal and political situations.

Arranged Marriage

I am attracted to a woman of higher status than myself.

Asexuality

I have always had zero interest in sex and find it repulsive.

Bad Choices

Your mental health can't escape your lies.

Blind Dates

How to get the most out of a blind date - a short interview with Dr. Don Kieffer.

Blind Dates

How to get the most from a blind date ~ a short interview with Dr. Don Kieffer

Blind Dates

(Starts at 6m 58s) Why you might consider blind dates. (Starts at 6m 58s)

Breaking Up

Should I break up with my dependent clingy girlfriend?

Breaking Up

I mis-read romance signals from girls I date.

Busybodies

Should I report my friend's homosexuality to his family?

Career vs Boyfriend

I help everyone except myself, and this is causing romance problems.

Career vs Romance

I can't agree with my boyfriend about where to live.

Casual Sex

Is true love compatable with casual sex?

Cheating - Is He?

How can I tell if my boyfriend is cheating on me?

Cheating Boyfriend

I just found out that my boyfriend is cheating on me.

Children vs Romance

My boyfriend wants kids but I can't physically have any.

Clingy Ex.

My husband's ex won't let go after 20 years.

Commitment

My boyfriend's way of relating to me is all over the map.

Commitment

I'm tired of being alone but my boyfriend won't commit.

Commitment

After 25 years of marriage I want to have an affair.

Commitment

My boyfriend does not want to commitment.

Commitment

My boyfriend can't stop being close friends with his ex.

Commitment

How do I stop a dead end relationship with a guy I love?

Commitment - Fear of

I am afraid of long term romantic relationships

Communication

Repairing a destroyed line of communication.

Communication

Why does my new wife want more time apart from each other?

Communication Concerns

My wife confessed that she thinks I am overbearing and lack ambition.

Communication When Angry

Help! I'm always losing my temper with my wife.

Communication With Boyfriend

Was I right to slap my boyfriend?

Communictating Preferences

How to Understand Your Romantic Partner

Competing With His ex

My boyfriend is too close to his ex wife.

Conflicting Values

I love two men.

Controlled by Girlfriend

How can I keep my independence in the face of a controlling girlfriend?

Controlling Husband

My husband keeps me from my kids

Controlling Husband

I cant cope with a husband who has a 1950's attitude about parenting and housework.

Controlling Wife

How can I deal with my controlling wife?

Controlling Wife

How can I deal with my controlling wife?

Courtship Dance

Should I pursue a romance or just remain friends?

Cyber Stalking

My internet romance turned into bizarre stalking.

Cyber Stalking

My internet romance turned bizarre

Dates; the 1st one

Dealing with a first date - a short interview with Dr. Don Kieffer

Dating

The wonderful value of experiencing romance, even if your partner decides to end it.

Dating

Some ways to meet potential dates - a short interview with Dr. Don Kieffer.

Dating

How can I ask out a girl whom I know has a boyfriend. (Begins at 3 minutes 58 seconds)

Dating

I'm dating an older woman and there is a lot of friction.

Dating

I have a hard time approaching women.

Dating

1-Is it ok to ask my boyfriend to move to my state? 2-Is there a problem if I make more money than my boyfriend?

Dating

Re-Entering The Dating World - A short interview with Dr. Don Kieffer

Dating After Divorce

How long should I wait to date after breaking up with my child's mom?

Dating After Divorce

How can I want to date again after leaving an abusive relationship?

Dating as an Adult

How can I, as a divorced adult, get back into the dating scene?

Dating Danger Signs

Should I stay engaged or move on?

Dating Disclosures

I want to date but I have health problems.

Dating Failure

Why do I never get a second date?

Dating Gatekeepers

Adult woman has to sneak away from mom in order to date boyfriend.

Dating Nervousness

I am too nervous and self conscious to date

Dating Nervousness

How can I better approach women?

Dating Reluctance

My son was romantically hurt and won't date anymore.

Dating Skills

How do I find a new girlfriend after a recent breakup?

Dating Tips

How can I approach women more easily?

Dating While Parenting

How old should my son be before I start dating again?

Deception

My friend started dating my ex. (podcast to be continued tomorrow)

Deciding to Decide

How do I decide among the boys in my life?

Demonic Wife

Getting out of a vicious marriage.

Denial

My husband always sides with my son over me.

Depression

My depression is ruining my romance.

Depression vs. Romance

My wife lacks confidence and seems depressed.

Differences

My girlfriend is not at all as intimate as I am.

Dishonest Boyfriend

My boyfriend lies about wanting to hire an "escort".

Dishonest Dating

My romantic partner lies and does not communicate.

Dishonest Girlfriend

My girlfriend told a major lie.

Dishonestly Dating

How can I repair a romance that I messed up by lying?

Dishonesty, apologies, and forgiveness

My boyfriend does not trust me for trivial reasons.

Divorce

Should I leave a partner whose self guilt is ruining our relationship?

Divorce

How do I tell my husband that I no longer love him?

Divorce

Should I stay with my druggy lying partner?

Divorce

How can I decide if I should stay with my wife of many years?

Divorce

How can I change my husband's mind about wanting a divorce?

Divorce

My husband is sending me mixed messages about separating.

Divorce - Should I?

My wife is mentally and physically abusive.

Divorce and Justice

I gave up my career for a man who wants a divorce.

Divorce, How to

How to back out of a marriage with an obese wife.

Divorce, maybe?

My husband does and does not want a divorce.

Divorce, Should I?

Should I stay with a husband who has both good and bad points?

Divorce- When to

Should I get a divorce after wife's third DWI?

Divorce- When to

Should I wait for my wife's confusions to pass, or should I protect myself and divorce?

Divorced and Looking

I'm newly divorced, want to meet women, but are unsure.

Divorced vs Un-divorce?

Should I get back together with an ex whom I worship?

Divorced, But Why?

My wife left me despite my catering to her every whim.

Doubtful Romance

Is my boyfriend a pedophile?

Doubting my Choice

I am engaged but have feelings for another man.

Earning Trust

How to question a spouse whom might be unfaithful.

Emotional Infidelity

How can I extinguish my desire for someone whom is not my wife?

Emotions

Dealing with strong negative emotions (A continuation of yesterday's podcast)

Ending a Romance

I'm getting signs that I should end my romantic relationship.

Engagement Fraud

My fiance of six years keeps delaying a wedding.

Envious People

Help me deal with an envious ex.

Equality in Romance

Romantic Equality (begins at 4 minutes 30 seconds)

Eroticism

What does it mean that my wife has erotic dreams?

Escape from Relationship

I need to escape from a bad romantic relationship.

Evaluating Potential Partners

How to tell if someone will be a good romantic partner?

Evil Spirits

My fun boyfriend has a big problem - he thinks he is controlled by evil energy ghosts.

Exclusivity

My man has too many woman friends.

Expressing Affection Part 1 of 2

I am afraid to tell my girlfriend how I like her.

Expressing Love

I try to buy my girlfriend's happiness rather than express my love.

Faked Love

I do not find my nice husband attractive.

Family

My boyfriend won't let me see my family.

Family Friction

My daughter-in-law won't let my son see me.

Family Problems

How can I save my marriage where I hate my controlling husband?

Fantasy

My boyfriend fantasizes about other women.

Finding a Partner

Ways to Meet Potential Dates - a short interview with Dr. Don Kieffer.

Fixing a Boring Marriage

A sample cognitive therapy session dealing with couples issues - a short interview with Dr. Judy Beck.

Forgiving Infidelity

If, when, and how to forgive or apologize when a partner has been unfaithful - a short interview with Dr. Tara Smith

Friends vs Wife

My husband puts his friends before us.

Gay Closet Anxiety

I feel a successful gay relationship is impossible

Genital Deformity

How do I tell my girlfriend that I have a physical deformity?

Gifts

Help! I'm dating a cheapskate.

Good looks

My girlfriend is perfect but I dislike her looks.

Grieving Romantic Loss

I don't want my wife to divorce me.

Guilty Divorce

In my heart I want my abusive husband back.

Guilty of Deceit

Why don't I feel guilty about my attraction to a married co-worker?

Guilty Romance

I am dying of guilt because I cheated with a coworker

Habits and Free Choice

How can I help my fiance stay faithful?

Habitual Liar

My habitual lying is ruining my marriage.

Happiness and Independence

My happiness is totally dependent upon my boyfriend.

Hard Decisions

My boyfriend can't stop being friends with his ex.

Healing From Infidelity

My sister always reminds my wife that I was unfaithful one time only.

Honesty

Help me stop lying to my wife about my innocent self-pleasuring.

Honesty

My boyfriend rarely admits when he is wrong.

Honesty and Communication

Everyone lies, so why does my partner object to my lying?

Honesty and Timing

Is my honesty ruining my romantic relationships?

I am Invisible

My fiance treats me like a sex toy.

Illness vs. Romance

Is it okay to leave my boyfriend due to his illness?

Impatience

I am impatient and obsessive about my cautious boyfriend.

Impotence

My wife thinks my inability to "perform" is because I don't like her any more.

Impotency

My wife demands we have a child I can't produce.

Impotency

Did my infidelity cause me to be impotent with my wife?

Impotency and Trust

My medication-induced intimacy problems are causing my wife to doubt my romantic commitment.

Incestuous Fiancé

My daughter discovered her fiancé was once incestuous with his sister.

Infatuation

Dealing with romantic rejection

Infatuation

A 15 year old has an unhealthy crush on her teacher.

Infidelity

What should I due since my wife was unfaithful?

Infidelity

Six ways I processed my husband's infidelity.

Infidelity

I think my wife is having an affair.

infidelity

I'm dating a married man

Infidelity

How do I cope with the discovery that my wife loves someone else?

Infidelity

Evading the evidence that a spouse is unfaithful (begins exactly at 8 minutes)

Infidelity

What is an "affair" and why are they so tempting? A short interview with Dr. Tiffany Kisler.

Infidelity after Childbirth

My husband had an affair after I jokingly told him to.

Infidelity and Newlyweds

I am newlywed, pregnant, and my husband cheats.

Infidelity Causes

Some causes of infidelity - a short interview with Dr. Tiffany Kisler

Infidelity Damage Control

Controlling the damage when one partner has an affair - a short interview with Dr. Tiffany Kisler.

Infidelity On Line

I am remorseful for cheating but can't get her out of my mind.

Infidelity Online

My boyfriend has cybersex.

Infidelity Recovery

Controlling the damage from an affair - a short interview with Dr. Tifany Kisler.

Infidelity Temptation

What is an affair, and why are they so tempting?

Infidelity? Repairs.

How do you rebuild your relationship if you discover your partner had an affair? A short interview with Dr. Tiffani Kisler.

Infidelity? Repairs.

How do you rebuild your relationship if you discover your partner had an affair? A short interview with Dr. Tiffani Kisler.

Insecurity

Is my wife's recent weight gain the cause of her insecurity, anger, and suspicion I cheat?

Insecurity and Over Parenting (two parts)

1-I panic and withdraw whenever I get romantically close to someone. 2 (at 6m27s) Kids learn best by doing.

Insults

Should I try to reconnect with a boyfriend with whom I exchanged strong insults?

Internet Romance

I have a crush on my internet therapist.

Intimacy

Setting realistic expectations for what a healthy sexual relationship is like - a short interview with Dr. Barry McCarthy

Intimacy and Guilt

I try to not have sex with women I like because then I lose interest in them.

Intimacy Disinterest

My girlfriend lost interest in the romantic part of our relationship.

Intimacy Forever

Intimacy - Use it or Lose it. A short interview with Dr. Barry McCarthy.

Intimacy Nervousness

I am self conscious during intimacy.

Intimacy Obstacles

Some obstacles to sexual satisfaction, and some cures - a short interview with Dr. Tiffany Kisler

Intimacy Postpartum

My girlfriend lost interest in sex after our child was born.

Intimacy Problems

Identifying and fixing sexual problems that couples face - a short interview with Dr Gary McCarthy

Intimacy Tips

Preserve your romantic intimacy by using these communication tips, a short interview with Dr. Tiffany Kisler

Intimacy vs Health

Senior couple wants intimacy but can't due to health.

Intimate Forever

Marital Intimacy; keeping it alive - a short interview with Dr. Barry McCarthy

Is he 'The One'?

How do you know when you have found the right match?

Jealousy

How can I deal with my jealousy?

Jealousy

I've ruined five marriages due to my demonic jealousy.

Jealousy Unjustified

My unjustified jealousy is driving me crazy.

Judging Behavior

How can I tell if my boyfriend still likes me?

Judging Character

My mom is overbearing about my romantic life.

Justice

My fiance won't stop his toxic daughter from ruining my desire to marry him.

Kids vs. Romance

I have to choose between my kids and my girlfriend.

Lazy Husband

My husband does not help around the house.

Letting Go

How can I help a friend exit a bad marriage?

Letting Go

My boyfriend still wants to be friends with his ex.

Letting Go

My boyfriend refuses to get rid of porn photos of his old girlfriends.

Liar's Guilt

(begins at 4m 51s) My guilt from cheating has ruined my life.

Living a Lie

I am not physically attracted to my otherwise good husband.

Loneliness

I’ve never had a romantic relationship.

Lovability

I deal with my insecurity and mistrust of others by being pompous.

Marital Intimacy

Marital Intimacy; Use it or Lose it - a short interview with Dr. Barry Mccarthy

Marriage Happiness

What makes for a long happy marriage? A short interview with Dr. Judy Kurianski

Massage

How massage can help you learn more about your partner and enhance your relationship - a short interview with Counselor Gretchen Mason

Massage and Health

The health benefits of single and couples massage

Massage and Romance

How massage can help your romantic relationship - a short interview with therapist Gretchen Mason.

Mean Behavior

How can I make my mean boyfriend want me?

Mental Infidelity

A married woman has super hots for a married man.

Misunderstandings

Misinterpreting your partner's behavior - a short interview with Dr. Cory Newman

Misunderstandings

Misunderstanding your partners behavoir - A sample marital therapy session interview with Dr. Cory Newman.

Money and Romance

My boyfriend refuses to discuss his spendthrift ways

Mother-In-Law Issue

How to fix a marriage made difficult by my mother-in-law.

Motivation by Values

1-I have become terribly lazy 2-I think my view of love is irrational.

Moving On

Help me to accept that our 7 year marriage is ending.

Mysterious Break-Up

My ex won't tell me why she broke up with me.

Nagging and Complaining

My girlfriend is always nagging me and complaining.

Nudity; Beautiful vs Offensive

My long distance boyfriend views erotica instead of nude pictures of me.

Older Men

I love a man 23 years my senior.

Overweight

My marriage is not working due to my weight gain.

Overweight vs. Sexuality

I lost desire for my girlfriend since she gained weight.

Partners in Romance

How to create a genuine romantic partnership - a short interview with Dr.Edwin Locke.

Past Lovers

I'm tortured about any men in my girlfriend's past.

Personality Change

My husband's unstable personality bounces all over the ball park.

Pleasure and Intimacy

Enjoying and Enhancing Romantic Intimacy - A short interview with Dr. Judy Kurianski.

Polygamy

I am in an unhappy polygamist relationship.

Porn vs Romance

My 10 year porn addiction competes with my desire for my wife.

Porn vs. Me

Why does my boyfriend use porn when he has me?

Porn vs. Romance

How can I save my marriage after my wife discovered my porn addiction.

Pornography (1 of 2)

Porn as a substitute for intimacy

Pornography (2 of 2)

Porn as a substitute for intimacy (begins at 7 minutes 20 seconds)

Reconciliation

Should I remarry an ex husband who wants to reconcile?

Recovering From an Affair - Controlling the damage from an affair - a short interview with Dr. Tiffany Kisler

Controlling the damage from an affair - a short interview with Dr. Tiffany Kisler

Regrowing Love

Does love have to be earned?

Relationship Tips

Are my difficulties with my fiance normal?

Remarriage Issues

My remarriage is filled with misery, distrust, and seven kids.

Repairing My Marriage

I am a bad husband

Repressed Boyfriend

Should I keep dating a guy who is emotionally closed?

Resolving Conflict

I have problems resolving conflicts with my spouse.

Respect

Why do I long for my past boyfriend rather than my current one?

Romance

I am desperately in love with a woman who broke up with me.

Romance Styles

Healthy Romance vs. Traditional Romance - A short interview with Dr. Edwin Locke

Romance Tips

How to choose a romantic partner.

Romance vs Depression

I want to trick my depressed grandmother into thinking that she has a secret admirer.

Romance vs. Career

I hate living in the city with my boyfriend.

Romance vs. Independence

How do I choose between my romance and my independence?

Romance vs. School

Should I give up school for a relationship with a wonderful guy?

Romance Without Romance

Romance Without Sex

I am not sexually attracted to the girl I love.

Romantic Breakup

I can't deal with an unexpected romantic breakup.

Romantic Exclusivity

My boyfriend can't stop being friends with his ex.

Romantic Reconciliation

How do I get back my girlfriend who broke up with me?

Sacrifice Backfired

How can I regain my self-confidence after my romantic breakup?

Seductive Neighbor

I worry about my husband's relationship with our sexy neighbor.

Self Confidence

How can I regain my self confidence after my deeply romantic partner hurt me so deeply?

Self-Esteem

My great bright girlfriend has low self-esteem.

Self-Pleasure

(starts at 5m 44s) Young adult asks if he is over-sexed (starts at 5m 44s)

Selfish?

My husband says that if I really loved him, I would eat what he cooks more often.

Selfless

I'm going crazy because I can't stop thinking about this girl.

Senior Dating

Sixty year old divorcee asks how to find a good woman.

Sensuality

Is my zero interest in sensuality normal?

Sex and Character

I want intimacy with my boyfriend, but he hurts my feelings.

Sex and Pain

My medical pain from sex is destroying my marriage.

Sex as a Sacrifice

I can't get romantic with men I care about.

Sex No More

My wife stopped wanting sex after our child was born.

Sex Problem or Relationship Problem?

Why most sex problems are relationship problems.

Sex Starved

The importance of repairing a sex starved marriage - a short interview with Michele Weiner Davis

Sex Starved

How to repair a sex starved marriage - a short interview with Dr. Michelle Weiner Davis

Sex Starved?

What is a sex starved marriage?

Sex Therapy

What is Sex Therapy? A short interview with Dr. Barry McCarthy

Sex vs. Romance?

I am more interested in the sex than the romance.

Sexless

(starts at 6m 13s) My husband no longer has a romantic bone in his body.

Sexless

My fiance was raped and now hates sex.

Sexual Myths

Myths about sexuality, including; frequency, spontaneity, intensity, age - with Dr Tiffany Kisler.

Sexual Pleasure Evolving

Enjoying and nurturing your sex life - a short interview with Dr. Judy Kurianski

Sexual Pressure

I rejected my girlfriend because she withheld sex.

Sexual Problems

Sexual problems couples face: a short interview with Dr. Barry McCarthy

Sexual Satisfaction

Setting realistic romantic expectations - a short interview with Dr. Barry McCarthy

Sexuality

Sexual problems couples face - A short interview with Dr. Barry McCarthy

Sexy Photos

Some different perspectives

Shyness

I fear if I tell my friend I love her I will lose her as a friend.

Signs of an Abusive Partner

(starts at 4m56s) Signs of an Abusive Partner

Social Anxiety

My husband has become a couch potato with social anxiety.

Social Anxiety

Overcoming the social anxiety of dating

Soulmate?

Soulmate? How should I evaluate a prospective soulmate?

Stages of Romance

Youth to Seniors; The typical stages of intimacy and romance - a short interview with Dr. Tiffany Kisler

Stress

Reducing stress via assertiveness - a short interview with Dr. Edwin Locke

Stress vs. Family Time

(starts at 6m 38s) The effects of a stressful job upon family life.

Suspicious of Boyfriend

Should I end a relationship having both good and bad aspects?

Teenage Mom

Did having children contribute to ruining my marriage?

Temptation

What is an affair, and why are they so tempting? A short interview with Dr. Tiffany Kisler

Therapist Ethics

My boyfriend fell in love with his therapist.

Too High Expectations

I am so emotional about separating from my husband.

Trust

My girlfriend's roommates don't trust me.

Trust

I'm having trust issues in my romantic relationship.

Trust

I don't trust my girlfriend who is starting college

Trust

My 18 year marriage has become a nightmare.

Trust and Commitment

Why did my married boyfriend of 30 years give me a ring?

Unattractive

I deeply love a woman whom I find very unattractive.

Undecided

My indecisive boyfriend has turned my world upside down.

Unearned Guilt

Two views about pre-marital sex.

Unfaithful Husband

How should I deal with my cheating husband?

Unjust Suspicion

My fiance broke off our engagement after 30 days due to a total misunderstanding.

Unwed Dad

I worry if my obese girlfriend is pregnant.

Violent Husband

I need help dealing with my violent husband.

Wandering Eyes

I fell in love with a younger man.

What Women Want

I wish guys knew what we want in a relationship.

Wife vs. Friend

My husband pays more attention to his friend than to me.

Work vs. Family

My wife's career is at odds with our family life.

Workaholic

I'd rather go to work than be with my own family.

Yo Yo Divorce

My husband wants a divorce, then to date, then to remarry me.