The Rational Basis® of Happiness Podcast

Dr. Tiffany Kistler and Dr. Ellen Kenner discussed the progression of romance in long-term relationships, the impact of aging on body image, and the importance of self-stylizing to maintain a positive body image. Kistler highlighted the natural discrepancy in desire that arises in long-term relationships, while Kenner emphasized the value of self-stylizing as a way to enjoy the aging process and find a unique and integrated way of dressing, grooming, and presenting oneself.

Action Items
[ ] Incorporate activities from courtship stage like picnics or date nights to maintain connection.

[ ] Recognize physical and desire changes as normal parts of aging rather than problems with relationship.

[ ] Contact Dr. Kistler or her organizations for more information or services.

Outline
Romance, intimacy, and desire in long-term relationships.

The speaker reflects on their past relationships and experiences with romance.

In the courtship stage, people are excited and responding to each other, but the novelty wears off as they settle into daily life.

Desire discrepancies can arise as people's natural desire for sex changes over time, leading to false conclusions about the quality of the relationship.

Maintaining romance in various stages of life.

Married couples may feel disconnected, build resentments, and not like each other's habits.

Parents may experience a drop in marital satisfaction during the transition to parenthood, but this does not necessarily mean a decrease in commitment or relationship stability.

Redefining roles and expectations can help couples navigate the challenges of an empty nest and find new ways to connect and foster intimacy.

Tiffany Kistler discusses aging and relationships, emphasizing the importance of self-value and stylizing.